Well, if you didn't give that someone a bad impression of yourself, chances are, both of you would be already friends at least? A friend, not being dislike by him or her? Ok, now it's the time you can progress a little further, taking a little more actions. But before so, it might be good to take notes of the followings:
For Guys, please understand that girls enjoy the process of being pursued. You have got to play this game well. Take things at a step; let the rhythm flow gradually and smoothly. Let her enjoy the process; make her feel that very value that's within herself.
For girls, do note that guys generally like girls who are more gentle and caring. Don't be too fierce scaring the guys away. Likewise, don't always put on that cold swanky look. Guys are generally not very patient creatures. Not matter how beautiful you are, you will eventually just turn them off.
Always take things slowly. Do not just walk straight to her and tell her "I love you, can you please be my girlfriend?" and vice versa for girls. You would most probably just scare him or her off, be patient. Well perhaps starting off with a little simple request for help would be ideal? Ok, I know it may sounds like a very old boring tactics but believe me, it works! At least most of the times?
For example, a girl can take the excuse of learning to play the guitar from the guy. "Hey Rick, you know? I've always dream of learning to play the guitar, I was thinking it would be so cool if you can find some time to teach me?" Well, if the guy has got no bad impression of you, chances are he will say yes. Afterall, it won't really take up much of his time and it's something he himself is interested in.
The same works for guys. Hmm? perhaps a little request for help in learning of some sign language? "Hi Lynn, I know you are helping out at the Deaf Associations. Well, I just started on my basic sign language classes recently, just wondering whether you be free to help me with my revision?" Do you think she will reject you? I believe a kind-hearted girl like Lynn won't mind sparing a little time to help you.
Ha, hope the examples I quoted didn't sound too silly? But think about it, it's not really that hard to request for a little help from your friend. Would you reject your friends if they required your help instead? As long as it doesn't take up too much of your time and it's within your capability, I am sure you won't mind helping them out?
Ok, now let's assume both Rick & Lynn's answer is yes. Isn't that the beginning of a simple wonderful date? Some very personal time between both? Well, when there's a first time, a next time won't be hard to come by? Don't you see the possibility of a real date on its way? I am sure you can come out with better excuses, better ideas of your own. The rest is all up to you, if things are meant to be, love will sparkle off between both of you.
©2005 http://www.loveletterbox.com
Rick Valens
Staff Writer
http://www.loveletterbox.com
Love Relationship Discussion Forum
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